Lead at a High Level Without Losing Yourself or Your Family
I help high-performing men overcome burnout and reclaim their identity, purpose, and peace so they can lead fully, stay grounded, and build a life that aligns with peace.
One Journey. One Man. One Legacy.
High Performance Has a Hidden Cost
And most men don’t notice it until it’s too late.
Behind the scenes, three forces slowly wear men down:
1. Loneliness
Success isolates.
The higher you lead, the fewer people you can talk to.
Men carry everything alone until the load becomes unbearable.
2. The Unearned Success Paradox
Your platform grew faster than your identity.
Now you’re constantly proving you belong—overworking, overcommitting, and living at a pace that punishes your soul.
3. Leadership Trauma
The hits add up betrayals, criticism, impossible decisions, spiritual pressure.
You kept moving because people depended on you… but the damage stayed.
Those three roots lead to the same outcome:
Burnout.
Not the emotional kind
the identity kind.
Burnout that drains your clarity, steals your joy, and creates distance with the people you love most.
A Guided Expedition Back to Yourself
This journey is built for men who:
Lead at a high level
Feel the weight of responsibility
Know something is “off” but can’t name it
Don’t want to ruin their marriage or lose connection with their kids
Are tired of leading alone
Want peace, clarity, and purpose back
Refuse to settle for a life that looks good but feels empty
If you’re successful on the outside but scattered or exhausted on the inside this is for you.
The Mission
To renew leaders by guiding them through a grounded journey of inner work, restoring their identity, strength, and core direction. Our purpose is to empower these men to lead their families, communities, and organizations with clarity and lasting impact.
The Renewal Expedition
A 24-session, deeply personal journey for men who lead who want to rebuild their life from the inside out.
This is not coaching.
Not therapy.
Not leadership training.
This is a guided transformation built on 15 years of pastoral, clinical, and leadership experience designed specifically for the pressure-filled life of high-performing Christian men.
You’ll move through three movements:
24 Session expedition | One Journey | 3 Movements
Movement One
Stabilize the pace. Restore clarity. Rebuild internal margin.
Before anything else, the man has to slow down enough to see himself again.
You will:
Regulate your nervous system
Eliminate mental overload
Rebuild emotional and spiritual margin
Establish simple, life-giving rhythms
Create space to breathe, pray, and think again
The goal:
You stop running on fumes. You get your mind and soul back.
Movement Two
Face your story. Heal the roots. Break internal patterns.
This is where the real transformation happens.
You will:
Confront loneliness and isolation
Expose the unearned success paradox
Identify leadership wounds you’ve ignored
Disarm shame, inner pressure, and self-criticism
Reconnect with the man God actually created you to be
The goal:
You stop performing. You start living from identity again.
Movement Three
Reconstruct purpose. Strengthen relationships. Lead from alignment.
This final movement is your new foundation.
You will:
Rebuild identity from a grounded place
Rediscover purpose without pressure
Repair your marriage and family connection
Build sustainable rhythms of leadership
Establish a legacy plan that outlives you
The goal:
You become a whole, aligned, emotionally strong man who leads without losing himself or the people he loves.
Most leadership programs help the leader.
This one restores the man.
Most coaching treats symptoms.
This journey rebuilds identity, soul, and structure.
Most men do life alone.
This is a guided, protected, confidential space where you finally don’t have to.
This is the only expedition built specifically for high-performing Christian men balancing leadership, faith, responsibility, marriage, fatherhood, and personal identity.
About Your Guide
Jonathan Mayes
Guide. Husband. Father. Rebuilder of Men.
For years, I lived at a pace that looked successful from the outside but was quietly costing me everything that mattered. I was running fast, driven, hypervigilant until the day I hit a wall I couldn’t outrun. My wife said the words that broke through all my noise: “I’m miserable being around you. When you’re here, you’re somewhere else.”
That moment forced me onto a different path.
A slower one.
A truer one.
I stopped. I listened. I learned to breathe again.
I faced the story I’d been avoiding, rebuilt what I’d fractured, and recovered the man God intended me to be present, grounded, connected.
Now I guide high-performing men through the same three-movement ascent that saved my life: Reset, Reckon, Rebuild.
My work exists for one purpose: to help men stop running from their lives and begin leading themselves with clarity, presence, and identity… before they lose what matters most.
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Two years ago, I hit a wall I could no longer outrun.
For most of my life, movement was my medicine.
If I stayed busy, stayed productive, stayed ahead, the insecurities from childhood never caught up.
I played the role people expected: calm, smart, competent, unshakeable.
On the outside, I looked like a man with a calling.
On the inside, I was sprinting on fumes.
By my early thirties, I had built everything a man is supposed to build degrees, a ministry role, a counseling license, a marriage, kids, a house, multiple jobs.
Success stacked up.
But presence? Margin? Joy?
Gone.
Then came the sentence that shattered the illusion:
“I’m miserable being around you. You’re here, but you’re never actually here.”
That was my wall.
Not a failure.
A revelation.
The moment forced me to face what my pace had been hiding
the exhaustion, the shame, the loneliness, the frantic need to prove I was enough.
I had to stop.
Really stop.
I stepped off the treadmill of achievement.
I shut down the projects, the posts, the constant motion.
And in the silence, everything I had outrun finally surfaced.
It was the beginning of a long, slow, honest climb back into my own life.
I had to Reset
Reclaim margin, regulate my nervous system, relearn how to breathe.
I had to Reckon
Confront the stories that shaped me, the loyalties I obeyed without noticing, the old wounds still steering the wheel.
I had to Rebuild
Restore my relationships, rediscover joy, rebuild my identity from truth instead of pressure.
Presence became more sacred than productivity.
Character more important than performance.
Connection more valuable than accomplishment.
I didn’t become a different man.
I became a whole one.
Now I guide other high-performing men through the same ascent the leaders running hot, running alone, running out of oxygen.
Men who have built impressive lives yet feel disconnected from the very things they’re building.
I help them slow down, tell the truth, confront what’s underneath, and rebuild a life that can actually hold the weight of their calling.
And every man arrives at the same crossroads:
Will you keep running until everything you love starts slipping through your fingers?
THE INVESTMENT
The Renewal Expedition
$25,000
24 Session, Deep, Personal,, Premium, Private
Includes:
- Weekly or biweekly sessions
- Personalized identity, leadership, and
marriage frameworks
- Custom-built rhythms, systems, and
strategic roadmaps
- Military-grade confidentiality
- Unlimited support between sessions
- A full legacy alignment plan
- Integration work for faith, family, calling,
and leadership
This is for men who want long-term transformation not a quick fix.
CLIENT RESULTS
“After three sessions I had more clarity than I’ve had in years.”
“I can finally slow down, connect with God, and access parts of myself I buried.”
“You helped me answer questions I’ve had for years in one conversation.”
Your Renewal Begins Here
The men who wait regret it.
The men who act transform.
Apply below and begin the process of rebuilding your life from the inside out.